Jealous

A group of girls is something so common, and every girl seems to belong to one.

Do you have one? Are you part of the popular girls, or the tomboy kind of girls, or the group who follows trends or those who study really hard?

There are so many groups of girls but one thing seems to belong in all of them…Envy!

This groups are usually broken when one is dating the guy all of them liked, or one is getting more attention than the other (isn’t the reason why girls band brake off).

The feeling of someone getting what you wanted or something good is automatically programmed to stir jealous feelings inside of us, ask Hannah and Peninnah about it. Hannah wouldn’t even eat because her rival was getting what she wanted.

But we can starve that feeling (jealousy) and feed the Godly behavior so it may grow. Here is how you can do it:

-Look at the qualities of that person and admire

-Write notes to tell her how you like and admire her

-Speak positively about it with friends

-Don’t entertain thoughts telling you otherwise

-Confess if needed

In other words those envy thoughts will always come, but you need to fight it! Next time your friend gets something…be happy with her…because you are Godly