Sexy Girl

Before meeting the Lord Jesus, I was completely lost in life, not only in the spiritual sense, but also physically. What do I mean? I thought that I needed to draw attention to myself to be noticed; I’m talking about the way I dressed. I feel ashamed when I remember those times, but if it is to help you, I am going to tell you about the former Fernanda.

I was very insecure and very concerned in wanting to draw men’s attention to me. I thought this was the only way for me to be appreciated. I even found ways to look sexy in my school uniform to catch men’s attention. My PE trousers were so tight that they looked like a second skin…

There were no limits for me. The shorter the skirt was, the better. The more transparent the dress was, the better. I loved very short strapless tops showing my naked belly… The more attention I was drawing, the more I thought I was appreciated and happier in love. But do you know what happened? I was always unhappy in love and felt used. That was when I went to church. When I converted, I understood the importance of taking care when choosing clothes to wear.

I started to see how vulgar my dress sense was and I understood that drawing attention to my body did not mean I was being appreciated.

It’s important that you understand that you will attract certain kinds of attention according to how you dress. The God-fearing man will not choose a sexy girl.

If you realise that you have been dressing in an improper manner and that your intention is to draw attention to your body, don’t hesitate to ask for advice and prayer. Clean out your closet and get rid of any tight and revealing clothes. For you who need some tips on what not to wear, here are some suggestions:

• G-strings.
• Tight jeans or trousers.
• Necklines showing parts of your breasts or your cleavage.
• Miniskirts.
• Transparent shirts showing your bra, or transparent skirts.
• Blouses showing your back.
• Tight dresses marking or exposing your silhouette.
• Tight skirts showing the outline of your buttocks.
• Low waist jeans showing your underwear.
• Clothes that show your naked belly.

You don’t need to expose your body in order to be beautiful and well dressed. The secret is to know how to dress in a proper manner and with care. It is also important to stress that I don’t want to create doctrines here; I just want to help those who want to be helped. If you don’t agree with my opinion or advice, of course, you are free to be how you want to be and wear whatever you want to

40 Secrets for the Single Woman. By Nanda Bezerra